#22 – Listener Questions: Polyamory, Jealousy and More

In this episode Mr. Saturday and I spend time in bed where we answer some listener questions. We have gotten emails from people and we have gotten questions in person.

The discussion includes an explanation of what a shadow box is. We talk about polyamory and how we make it work. We discuss how we deal with jealousy.

We talk about how we communicate with each other during play and how that might differ from other people’s strategies. This part gets really juicy and we recap our orgy from the last podcast a little bit. We talk about how to handle people who try to invite themselves into an active play scene. It gets interesting when we hit on some possible scenarios that we hadn’t yet considered ourselves.

#22 – Listener Questions: Polyamory, Jealousy and More
Personal Life Ups and Downs

 
 
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#14 – Successfully Navigating Awkwardness in the Lifestyle

The swinger lifestyle can be very exciting. It offers so many opportunities to meet and interact with fun and sexy people. However, as is true with other social interactions, sometimes things can get awkward or uncomfortable.

This episode is personal and intense for us. Mr. Saturday and Brainy get REALLY honest and personal. In previous episodes we have shared many (mostly) positive experiences that we have been fortunate enough to experience together. This episode focuses on experiences that were less positive. Some were a bit clumsy and a few were downright awful. We discuss these and explore how they might have been handled better. Honest and open communication seems to be the key, and we discuss that here.

Brainy recounts a few experiences in the lifestyle where things got awkward. Some ended really badly, but some turned out OK because they were handled well. Later, Mr. Saturday shares some of his experiences. He talks about having an intense group sex experience that was later made awkward when one of the of the participants divulged that he was cheating on his wife.

Awkward moments often involve male performance issues, and Mr. Saturday offers his advice for handling these situations. Performance issues can be caused by a myriad of factors, but the way in which they are handled makes a big difference in the way everyone ends up feeling. It’s interesting to consider why very similar events can have such different outcomes when things are handled better and communication is improved.

Establishing a plan to deal with potentially awkward situations can make swinging adventures much more fun. We offer some suggestions about how to do that here.

Please let us know if you have anything to add to our discussion by leaving a comment or a voice message.

Happy Swinging!

#14 – Successfully Navigating Awkwardness in the Lifestyle
Personal Life Ups and Downs

 
 
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#12 – Holiday Swinger Hotel Takeover Birthday Weekend!

Join me and Mr. Saturday for an epic hotel takeover adventure tonight!

It was Saturday’s birthday and we had an awesome birthday weekend! It started on Friday night when we went for an Angel Entertainment pre-party at the hotel where we got to do an interview with Dave (Mr. Angel himself!). We spent the rest of the evening hanging out with the Angel staff and making new friends.

Saturday was the birthday! So, we headed back to the hotel early enough to get checked in right at 3 PM and have an early dinner. After dinner we got to do an interview with Tim and Mydalis. They told us all about how they met and how they got into the lifestyle. Mydalis also told us about how she became an amazing lifestyle photographer! (We did a shoot with her and the pics are HOT).

Finally we headed down to the party and had an amazing evening. We saw friends and met new sexy people. We danced and played with a sexy couple and a unicorn. The evening came to an exciting crescendo when we got to spend some fun time with a brand new super sexy couple.

It was all really amazing and I am excited to hear your thoughts. Leave a note or a voice message if you want to comment!

Happy Swinging!!!

#12 – Holiday Swinger Hotel Takeover Birthday Weekend!
Swinger Hotel Takeovers

 
 
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New Podcast Tonight!

Join me and Mr. Saturday for an epic hotel takeover adventure tonight!

It was Saturday’s birthday and we had an awesome birthday weekend! It started on Friday night when we went for an Angel Entertainment pre-party at the hotel where we got to do an interview with Dave (Mr. Angel himself!).

We chatted with Tim and Mydalis, a super hot lifestyle couple. Mydalis is a very talented photographer and she does pictures at the events. We were lucky enough to do a whole shoot with her.

We also had some sexy party adventures, so join us to hear all about it!

Please leave a note or a voicemail if you have questions or comments.

Happy Swinging!

Hotel Takeover Fun – The first Halloween takeover of 2019

First of all, it’s Halloween month, which is my favorite! Last night I attended my first Halloween hotel takeover party of 2019. It was really fun. The hotel itself didn’t have an ideal layout for socializing, but the guests were all enthusiastic and friendly and we ended up having a great time. Mr Saturday and I played with 3 different couples, flirted with some others and made a bunch of new friends. You will hear all about it when I post this week’s episode on Wednesday.

I had some amazing and some awkward interactions and I have lots of thoughts about all of them. Every new event is an experience and gives me more opportunities to think about my feelings about the lifestyle and human interaction in general. This week I will talk about pushy couples, awkward cock blockers and non-traditional relationships in the lifestyle.

I am planning to post a bonus episode (hopefully Friday) with LOTS more thoughts about etiquette. I may do that alone or discuss it with guests. I haven’t decided yet.

xox

Brainy

#4 – Lifestyle Etiquette and Experiences with Mr. Cadillac

This week I had the opportunity to chat with a lifestyle friend who is fun, sexy and articulate. It was nice to chat about some lifestyle issues that I have been thinking about. We discuss single male etiquette, couple privilege and unicorn hunting. Oh, and it seems we have made a play date meet again….and THEN record an episode. Enjoy!

#4 – Lifestyle Etiquette and Experiences with Mr. Cadillac

 
 
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#3 – Date Night with Two New Friends!

I had a weekend adventure at a swinger barbecue and then we went to a lifestyle nightclub event. I made two new sexy friends and we even played with a couple we met (yes – all 5 of us!).

This turned out to by my first date with Mr. Saturday! Who knew?

#3 – Date Night with Two New Friends!
House Parties

 
 
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#2 – Naughty in N’awlins 2019 – Day 1

This year I finally go to go to the ultimate swinger convention, Naughty in N’awlins! The weekend was amazing and I met, chatted with and played with so many amazing people. The weirdest part is that this trip was also a first date! I’ll tell you all about it! xox

#2 – Naughty in N’awlins 2019 – Day 1
Naughty in N'awlins 2019

 
 
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