Thoughts in the car with Mr. Saturday!
You may remember an episode I did with Mr. Cadillac where we talked about couple privilege. Here I revisit some of those same ideas with Mr. Saturday.
We love to talk in the car. In this episode, Mr. Saturday and I spend a long car ride discussing swinger lifestyle politics. We discuss our transition from single to couple status and how that looks different fro each of us. Later we talk about couple privilege and single males etiquette.
We have the interesting perspective that we became a couple after being in the lifestyle for a long time as singles or with other partners. Many people that we meet transitioned from a monogamous relationship to an open relationship with their one long time partner or spouse. It’s interesting to consider things from both sides.
I continue to consider things a bit later when I have a long drive alone. I recount a few interactions that I have had with single males and couples and how some of them made me feel.
Swinger hotel takeover parties are so much fun! Mr. Saturday and I drove several hours to attend a Euphoria Party because we had heard good things and it was DISCO theme (my fav!). It was an amazing evening for so many reasons.
Everyone was so nice. We made tons of new swinger friends and saw a few familiar faces too. There was an amazing couple speed dating event that helped break the ice for us and we also did a shot exchange with everyone. I brought over 100 pudding shots.
We got to wear amazing disco regalia (platforms, bell bottoms, velvet and glitter) and we danced to disco all night! Everyone really went all out for the theme. There were light up shoes, leather chaps and tons of sparkle.
The playroom was wild! We jumped in a played with a hot couple pretty early. They were super sexy, and we have plans to see them again. We also played in the shadow box because we love and audience.
The evening came to a surprising emotional crescendo.
Life has been so much fun and I’m anxious to tell you all about it!
I had WAY too much fun at a swinger house party last weekend. I met up with new couples, played with Mr. Saturday and we had sex in a hot tub, in a play room AND in a bus!
Poly/swinger life isn’t all awesome sexy times and perfect friendships. My recent primary relationship ended rather suddenly and was actually a surprise to me. Here I react and then reflect on the experience and my feelings. There are two parts: one is immediately after the call and the second I recorded two days later.
NOTE: This episode isn’t as upbeat as most of my podcasts, but I thought it was important to be authentic with my audience.