Join me in bed with Mr. Saturday! We have some post-sex chit chat and talk about communication, the future of the swinger lifestyle and about our Fuck Bucket!
Fuck Bucket – Our awesome box of sex party supplies that we bring with us when we attend swinger events! We talk about what we typically bring with us and what might change when we finally get to attend hotel parties again.
Hey! What a few months! In this episode I catch up with Mr. Saturday and we talk about our communication strategies for awkward situations, recount some sexy group play from our last event and give our thoughts about swinging after the pandemic.
I also announce my partnership with AltPlayground! I’m really excited to be working with AltPlayground.com. It’s a lifestyle website where you can meet other people who practice ethical non-monogamy, but it’s super inclusive and the love podcasters! Stay tuned for more on that in future episodes.
I missed you guys and I’m happy to be back to doing regular updates.
I adore Valentine’s month and this has been a great one! Mr. Saturday and I celebrated by ourselves on Valentine’s proper. We kept it low key in preparation for Valentine’s Swinging at Club Euphoria on Saturday.
It’s Valentine’s month! That’s right, the WHOLE month is sexy Valentine’s month! I like to celebrate starting on the 1st. Mr. Saturday and I were invited to co-host an Angel Entertainment Valentine’s hotel takeover party on Feb. 1st 2020 and we had a blast! We had SO much fun that our episode was too long for a single podcast. You will find it here in two parts.
In party 1 we talk on our way to the event. We begin by talking about what we plan to wear for the party and that leads us to discuss grooming and presentation and how everyone can be sexy. We take this a bit farther and discuss our own grooming habits. We’re both pretty fastidious about grooming our sexy bits but we don’t really expect everyone to wax and laser and religiously as we do. That took us into a discussion about grooming and anal sex which got interesting. During all of this we call on personal examples. It was a lively discussion.
We arrived at the hotel and sign off to get ready for the party. We pick up after the party in part 2 of this episode – which will be posted at the same time so you don’t have to wait.
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#24 – Valentine’s Swinger Hotel Takeover Co-hosting – Part 1 Hosting
We had quite an adventure at their disco theme party in November of 2019. Mr. Saturday told me he loved me for the first time IN THE PLAYROOM! It was absolutely perfect so will always feel a little romantic about Club Euphoria. You can hear all the details in our Disco Party episode AND in episode or their podcast.
Polyamory – what does it mean to me….this week? Polyamory leads me to continue to reconsider things and to think deeply about my feelings and how I relate to people. I had some time to think so I recorded a reaction to some things that have come up recently. Mr. Saturday and I have an open relationship and we both are free to see other people. We are both absolutely comfortable with sex with other partners, but we are both less experienced with the emotional attachments that come with other relationships.
I feel pretty confident that I would love to see Saturday happily connecting with someone else, but I haven’t really put that to the test yet. He hasn’t met anyone that he’s become that attached to in that way. He also wonders how he will react to my becoming very attached to another partner. Our communication is terrific and consistent so I think we are in a good position to deal with anything that come up, but we still have yet to really test that.
Comment or message if you have thoughts about polyamory.
#23 – Bonus Episode: Polyamory in My Own Life – My Thoughts in the Car Personal Life Ups and Downs
What a crazy experience (in the BEST way)! Mr. Saturday and I were invited to host a pre-party hospitality suite at the Furry/Pajama theme Angel Entertainmenthotel takeover. Everyone had SO much fun. We set up our room to have snacks and special gummy bear shots with places for people hang out and mingle. We passed out wrist bands from our Lifestyle Colors project so that people could show their sharing and seeking colors with other party-goers. People loved the idea and it was a marvelous ice breaker.
At the end of an amazing evening (that involved quite a bit of drinking), Saturday and I got in the jacuzzi tub in our room and recorded our thoughts! We are clearly very tipsy and I initially thought about just discarding it, but it’s funny and we like to be authentic. We talk about the party in the room, the massive orgy in the playroom and all the dancing and debauchery that went down at the party.
I recap the party again after the drunk tub segment so you can get a clearer picture of things. It was an awesome night and I’m looking forward to hosting again!
Check back tomorrow for PART 2 of this episode where I interview some of our awesome SWINGER FRIENDS! You’ll hear from The Captain and Snarky, Bubbles and Wolfie, Mr. and Mrs. New York and Minka!
#20 – Swinger Party Fun – Hosting Our First Suite Party! (part 1) Hosting
I have more fun parties coming up! I have been invited to co-host at another Angel Entertainment hotel takeover on February 1st, 2020. This is an amazing way to kick of Valentine’s Month!
If you’re interested in coming out, you can sign up from the link here. I had SO much fun at the last event that I can’t wait to do this next one. Seriously, last weekend’s party involved old friends, new friends, dancing, sex and even an orgy!
Hope to see you there, and if you can’t make it, stay tuned for all the details in a future podcast.
#19 – Brainy Update: Valentine’s Plans and Party Appearances! News and Updates!
This year has been amazing and we decided to end it in ultimate swinger fashion! We attended a huge Angel Entertainment hotel takeover with over 600 swingers in attendance! It was crazy and we had SO much fun. You can hear all the juicy details in this episode.
We are so ready to start 2020 right so we agreed to host an event for Angel Entertainment and we plan how to make our best first impression as swing party officials.
We also talk about some other silliness including the cold we both recently had. The cold that went around the swing community was dubbed “Swinger Crud” by Ray and De from our Club Euphoria adventures and the Euphoria Chronicles. Mr Saturday and I have used the term a LOT!
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#18 – Swinging into 2020! The Final Recap! House Parties
The swinger lifestyle can be very exciting. It offers so many opportunities to meet and interact with fun and sexy people. However, as is true with other social interactions, sometimes things can get awkward or uncomfortable.
This episode is personal and intense for us. Mr. Saturday and Brainy get REALLY honest and personal. In previous episodes we have shared many (mostly) positive experiences that we have been fortunate enough to experience together. This episode focuses on experiences that were less positive. Some were a bit clumsy and a few were downright awful. We discuss these and explore how they might have been handled better. Honest and open communication seems to be the key, and we discuss that here.
Brainy recounts a few experiences in the lifestyle where things got awkward. Some ended really badly, but some turned out OK because they were handled well. Later, Mr. Saturday shares some of his experiences. He talks about having an intense group sex experience that was later made awkward when one of the of the participants divulged that he was cheating on his wife.
Awkward moments often involve male performance issues, and Mr. Saturday offers his advice for handling these situations. Performance issues can be caused by a myriad of factors, but the way in which they are handled makes a big difference in the way everyone ends up feeling. It’s interesting to consider why very similar events can have such different outcomes when things are handled better and communication is improved.
Establishing a plan to deal with potentially awkward situations can make swinging adventures much more fun. We offer some suggestions about how to do that here.
Please let us know if you have anything to add to our discussion by leaving a comment or a voice message.
#14 – Successfully Navigating Awkwardness in the Lifestyle Personal Life Ups and Downs
We arrived early to do our photo shoot. We started with some fun couple pictures, and then moved to boudoir and more suggestive shots. AND, in epic Mr. Saturday style, we ended with full on porn and even had a money shot!
After the shoot we had dinner with swinger friends and then the party was amazing. We danced, mingled and had some amazing sexy fun!
Please join us for all the juicy details tonight at 10 PM EST.
It was Saturday’s birthday and we had an awesome birthday weekend! It started on Friday night when we went for an Angel Entertainment pre-party at the hotel where we got to do an interview with Dave (Mr. Angel himself!).
We chatted with Tim and Mydalis, a super hot lifestyle couple. Mydalis is a very talented photographer and she does pictures at the events. We were lucky enough to do a whole shoot with her.
We also had some sexy party adventures, so join us to hear all about it!
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Swinger hotel takeover parties are so much fun! Mr. Saturday and I drove several hours to attend a Euphoria Party because we had heard good things and it was DISCO theme (my fav!). It was an amazing evening for so many reasons.
Everyone was so nice. We made tons of new swinger friends and saw a few familiar faces too. There was an amazing couple speed dating event that helped break the ice for us and we also did a shot exchange with everyone. I brought over 100 pudding shots.
We got to wear amazing disco regalia (platforms, bell bottoms, velvet and glitter) and we danced to disco all night! Everyone really went all out for the theme. There were light up shoes, leather chaps and tons of sparkle.
The playroom was wild! We jumped in a played with a hot couple pretty early. They were super sexy, and we have plans to see them again. We also played in the shadow box because we love and audience.
The evening came to a surprising emotional crescendo.
Life has been so much fun and I’m anxious to tell you all about it!
#9 – Disco Hotel Takeover in Ohio with Mr. Saturday! Swinger Hotel Takeovers
First of all, it’s Halloween month, which is my favorite! Last night I attended my first Halloween hotel takeover party of 2019. It was really fun. The hotel itself didn’t have an ideal layout for socializing, but the guests were all enthusiastic and friendly and we ended up having a great time. Mr Saturday and I played with 3 different couples, flirted with some others and made a bunch of new friends. You will hear all about it when I post this week’s episode on Wednesday.
I had some amazing and some awkward interactions and I have lots of thoughts about all of them. Every new event is an experience and gives me more opportunities to think about my feelings about the lifestyle and human interaction in general. This week I will talk about pushy couples, awkward cock blockers and non-traditional relationships in the lifestyle.
I am planning to post a bonus episode (hopefully Friday) with LOTS more thoughts about etiquette. I may do that alone or discuss it with guests. I haven’t decided yet.
Saturday and I went to a swinger hotel takeover with a pinup theme. It was an amazing night and we had SOOO much fun. We ran into some old friends of mine and made some new friends and …. we played with them too!
First I talk about getting ready to go, then Mr Saturday and I make a plan to communicate with each other during a hectic party with new people. Then our new friends told us about how they got into the lifestyle and finally I recap the evening and give my thoughts.
#7 – Hotel Takeover Adventure with Mr. Saturday and Two Sexy Couples! Swinger Hotel Takeovers